Life before Dimensions
It is thought Gary suffered a head injury at birth, which caused permanent neurological damage. He has always struggled with his speech and speaks very quietly. Gary has only a few happy memories from childhood, mostly shopping trips with his aunt and a family holiday.
As a teenager, Gary began to display behaviours that worried his family and school. At just 17, in 1965, he was admitted to hospital under section 26 of the Mental Health Act 1959. What was supposed to be short-term care became almost 50 years spent in hospital.
Hospital life was incredibly restrictive for Gary. He had limited understanding of consent and consequences, which led to incidents. He once shared that he thought he was in hospital for 50 years because of epilepsy. Gary rarely voiced his preferences, never complained and simply accepted whatever he was told.
A new chapter in the community
In 2015, aged 66, Gary was supported by Dimensions to live in the community for the first time since he was 17. For Gary, this was life-changing. Though he initially needed 1:1 support at all times, he finally had freedom to go out, to make choices, and to enjoy life.
It wasn’t easy at first. Gary needed support to manage risks and build confidence. Together with his team, he worked hard on communication and expressing what he wanted.
Where Gary is now
Today, Gary understands the harm his past actions caused. He says he no longer has risky thoughts and hasn’t displayed risky behaviour for several years.
Gary is now independent in many ways. He confidently tells people what he wants, enjoys meeting new people and sharing his life experiences. His spare time is filled with holidays and day trips – Bognor Regis tops his list of favourites! His bungalow is bright, decorated with photos of his adventures, and he loves chatting about them.
Making his own choices
Recently, Gary asked for some “independent time” without staff support. He learned how to use a mobile phone and keep himself safe. In December 2022, Gary had his first time alone in nearly 50 years and he loved it! Since then, Gary has had regular independent time and continues working towards even more.
Gary’s journey shows what’s possible with the right support and determination. From half a century in hospital to living independently in the community – Gary’s life now is his own.
